Late November 2025 I escaped to Langkawi for my birthday — perfect timing since my boss was pushing me to take leave 😒 February 2026 I flew to Phuket a short unpleasant time but not bad for the start. April I visited Yogyakarta, Indonesia for a fun filling to both Borobudor and Prambanan Temple with […]
How exciting and fun can it get when I have not ever had Vadapav 😂. I know it sounds 🤣 yet weird right? Well I finally made it to Mumbai to experience and we eat as much 😄. The most anticipated Vada Pav became one of MK’s favorite. As it’s something not served in Malaysia.
So I started a “healthy breakfast” diet this week. Sounded like a good idea at 11pm. At 8am? Different story 😅 Every morning now is a battle between my brain and my stomach. Brain: “Eat clean. Avocado toast. It’s good for you.”Stomach: “Nasi Lemak Ayam. Extra sambal. Extra ayam. Now.” ❤️ I tried being responsible.
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So After having a good rest I had the nasi Ayam as it’s just for 6 myr. Was nice and filling too. Thought of getting a cheesecake as well. Just across there’s a coffee bean which serves the best bagels and not forgetting the New York Cheesecake 😋.
Introduction Carl Jung admitted something most therapists won’t say out loud: Patients with sharp memory who document their experiences made him uncomfortable. He called them “dangerous.” At first I thought that was strange. Why would remembering be dangerous? Then I healed alone after leaving a toxic family dynamic. And I understood. Because when you write
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Introduction For years I thought failure meant I was doing it wrong. As a neurodivergent mind, every mistake felt like proof: too sensitive, too direct, didn’t read the room. I’d replay text messages at 2am. “Did they mean it like that?” “Was that sarcasm?” “Should I have replied differently? “Then I realized something: Failure is
Growing up in a dysfunctional home, you were taught that love meant having no limits. That saying “no” made you a bad daughter, son, sibling, or Christian. So now the idea of boundaries feels wrong. But here’s the truth: boundaries are biblical, healthy, and necessary. 1. Why Boundaries Are Important. Boundaries are not walls to
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If you grew up in a dysfunctional narcissist family, you’ve probably heard some version of this: “That’s just how we are.” “Family is family.” “Don’t talk about it.” But deep down you knew something wasn’t right. That feeling you had? That was discernment. And it’s the first step to becoming a Cycle Breaker. 1. Recognizing
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Super excited for the upcoming trip to Ipoh Malaysia. Been always a passion for travel and trying different foods 😀. Hor Fun, Coffee, chendol and lots of other variety of foods and not forgetting my Chia Seeds too. The best part of the trip is the time management skills which I had been using ever
Yesterday I had the chicken masala set at the Taste of India restaurant. Rich gravy, big flavor, chicken on the bone. It was exactly what I was craving. It was also heavy. That deep, slow-digest kind of full. This morning I had roti canai which I had to take turmeric tonic mix cinnamon and lemon
Most nights I’m on patrol with my duty phone in hand. I take photos of cars parked on yellow boxes, do my rounds, and make sure my presence is visible. That’s my job as a security But lately I’ve been watching something else: AI creeping into the same spaces I patrol. “AI-powered” CCTV that claims
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Living in a different time zone can be a challenge. Sneezing and 🥶 with the temperature 🤒. Due to which I wasn’t able to write the past few days. I know the feeling sucks. 22 hours of ✈️. A week more to get back to next trip; Thankfully I had some good butter chicken with
